there is always some hope. hold on.

Remember I told you not to be afraid to be inspired? well, I was inspired this week by a professor of mine. She shared a quotes with the class that she uses in life, that I now use in life and I know all of you will appriciate it as well. The quote is 

“Never tell yourself no.”


What that means is never take yourself out of a situation before even trying. If you tell yourself “no, I can’t do that.” And then you try it’ll be impossible to do it. You control your mind if you say no you’re already giving up. When you come to new things that scare you don’t say no say yes, “Yes i can do that.” Don’t be afraid to fall because just because something doesn’t happen the way you wanted it to, does not mean that you are a failure, all it means is that maybe you have to try again or find something else something better. The only failures in life are those who don’t try.

After heartbreak it’s hard to pick yourself up, let alone have any self worth. But, you need to know that you can do things in life. DO NOT LET FEAR RUN YOUR LIFE. Personally for me school is really hard for me, I get an assignment and I tell myself I can’t do it Then i get frustrated and overwhelmed. I give up before even trying and that what a lot of people do. You see something that you aren’t familiar with and you get scared, and you tell yourself that there is no way in hell that someone like you can do something like that. But just like all of you, i’m trying to be better. You will be better and so will I. We just have to keep on walking and remember we walk this road together so lets Stop saying no to ourselves and start saying yes. 

I believe in you.
xoPTP 

Anonymous asked: cont... I don't know. I miss how close my family used to be. We don't hardly ever do anything together now and it's just. It sucks. My youngest brother has talked about wanting to die before and it seems like he's better but I worry about him. And there are so many areas of my body I want to improve on. I'm unhappy with the way I look and I want to lose a little weight but then, Im kind of scared to. Change makes me uneasy. I just havent felt like myself lately and have been really stressed.

okay… first I just want to apologise because i have lacked on checking this but i’m reading it now. okay love, for your relationship with your fionce i don’t feel qualified to give advice considering my serious lack of any relationship experience. but i will say this if you want it work fight for it, you seem to realize that you guys don’t communicate anymore, stop and do something about it. you need to start communicating with him then love. it might take time but if you have faith and really want it to work let him know how you feel. every relationship has it’s moment it wether you want it enough to fight for it that seperates the ones that last and the ones that don’t.

as for your little brother try spending some time with him. i have a two year old little sister and i spend as much time as I can with her. i know she’s only two but it’s the little moments that count you know? spend time with him do something he likes you don’t have to talk to him about his past thoughts but just let him know you care and that you are always going to be there.

As for self confidence i can tell you that i know the feeling. the reason of me not coming on here as much as i usually do is because i had to deal with some self issues. i want to be good to help you guys but i gotta help myself first before i can help anyone else. something i do that i swear  my is self affermations. say 5 good things about yourself. also too stay positive anytime there is a negative see the positive MAKE YOURSELF SEE THE POSITIVE! it’s going to be hard bbut you gotta do it. we can’t live our lives feeling bad for ourselves because i believe in you. you are beautiful. you are blessed you have a familly siblings and a fionce and even though you may be going through some hardships think that at least you have those people. see that’s the positive. try the affermations and let me know how you are doing. don’t give up and if you want to make a change make sure it is healthy. don’t be afraid of change because you are worth more than you know.

love you xo Push the Pressure

Anonymous asked: Lately I've been feeling down on myself again. Like I'm not good enough. Not for my fiance... Not body wise... Just like I'm not worth it in general, you know? My fiance and I have been fighting alot lately. We seem to be taking a step in the right direction considering we both realized recently we've gotten to the point where our communication is seriously lacking. We're both hesitant to go to the other out of fear that we'll upset each other. And while sometimes home is going good, others...

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Sometimes we let our fear get in the way. We are to scared to live out our dreams. Sometimes it’s not that you won’t get there but that you’ll get there but that when you get there it isn’t what you thought it would it be. And that’s ok but sometimes you need to be brave. Stand against your fear. When you’re afraid it’s also natural for you to say it’s because people are in the way of you being able to reach your dreams; but in reality the only people in the way of you getting to where you want to be, is yourself.

Take a step back for a few days and see what it is that you really want. Do you want to be in the place that your in and if you don’t, what is it that you need to do to change where you are. Here’s the thing, tons of times people decide that the place they are in is not where they want to be, but are to scared to try.

Stand up for yourself, but mostly believe in yourself. Things may not change as quickly as you’d like them to change but you’ll get there. Never let fear determine where you take your stand in life. It’s okay to feel scared sometimes but don’t be afraid to dream because Dreaming permits each and every one of us to be quietly and safely insane every night of our lives.

xo Push the Pressure 

There people around us that inspire us to be who we are. The people who make us smile inspire us to be happy. The people who make us cry inspire us to be sad. The people who are always there inspire us to keep on living and the people who turn away inspire us to give up hope. You inspire to look like a model, sing like a pop star, date a heartthrob, and be rich like a celebrity. Hollywood and the people that live in it seem to be the biggest inspirations because they are shoved in our faces and we are told that, that is what true beauty looks like. People over the internet tell us that we are not worth it in attempts to inspire our destruction. 

It’s time for you and I to become our own inspirations. To look in the mirror and say i want to be me today. To think about our futures and want to make a new way, one that others will walk down. To be someone that no one else can be. Be your own inspiration don’t look up to anyone else because no one can get better than you. Love who you are and smile knowing that if you are you the best you, you can be nothing can compare to the inspiration you are going to be. it’s never bad to be a inspired but don’t be afraid to be an inspiration.